Tips for Success


1. Build a full profile with photos Include as much information as you can about yourself and upload one or more recent photos that clearly show your face. Members will be looking at many other profiles and they tend to respond better when they get a good idea of who you are.
2. Search for your match Use the powerful search pages to find the kind of person you are interested in. Use 'simple search' or 'advanced search' by choosing from the tab at the top right of the search page. Search from the criteria that interest you such as age, location, occupation etc.
3. Communicate with other members On each members screen you will see the communication options. * Send a wink to show you are interested - simple and easy. * Write an email - contact the member with a personal message. *Chat in real time - if the other member is online you can have a live conversation via the chat window.
Finally - Take your time and be patient! Building trust and understanding each other via the internet takes longer than it would in person so be patient, communicate well and always be honest. In the end your patience will pay off!